Basic Human maintainance. after separation self care.
It can be far too easy to let yourself and important things go after a long term relationship ends. Who cares about housework when your...
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Solo Me Yo
durandal5
Feb 273 min read
Valentines day, and solo survival.
It can be hard looking dead into the eyes of a "together holiday" when you are recently estranged. One playful suggestion is to hit up...
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durandal5
Dec 312 min read
Out with the old. (it was inevitable)
New year new you. Whether by choice or by circumstance, the new you feels a lot like the old you only minus the love of your life, and...
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durandal5
Dec 18, 20232 min read
Everything sideways, its good advice but tiresome to hear.
Everyone's probably heard it, Probly gonna hear it again. Regardless of the choices made to get you here. You are here. For many,...
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durandal5
Dec 13, 20232 min read
Exercising options.. pun intended.
Breakups hurt. The longer you've been together the more it hurts. Lets face it, You built a life around eachother everything you did...
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durandal5
Dec 10, 20234 min read
Food for thought, and Simple maintenance
So I keep coming back to this because it keeps surprising me how often it becomes a limelight issue. Groceries,, Meal prep, and staying...
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durandal5
Nov 24, 20232 min read
A few disclaimers, and by yourself thanksgiving ideas, and please know you are not alone.
So I'm going to state at the outset that some of my content is paywalled, some of it is not. It may be arrogant of me to presume that my...
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durandal5
Nov 21, 20232 min read
After separation, the trap of transactional relations.
One thing I noticed right away now that its just me. is the people around me are different. where as before they thought it was fun to...
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durandal5
Nov 21, 20232 min read
you do you. food..
When starting the single again life a couple of things become readily apparent, the first of which being. your your own you. financially...
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durandal5
Nov 21, 20232 min read
The Opening, and more to come.
It's staggering isnt it? When you say those magic words to someone, and they say them back to you, and a few years later you find out...
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